Surviving The Crash After The Crush (The Male Borderline)

This article sums up my exhusband completely. It’s rare to find male BPD recognised, let alone described in detail. Wonderful article for those who are or have been married to someone with BPD


Silent Treatment (Worst Form Of Emotional Abuse)

Not a type of abuse I copped much in my first marriage thankfully, so not something that bothers me much on a personal level (for me, it’s lies and hypocrisy that bother me) but yet, on a non-personal level, I find this type of emotional abuse to be one of the most disgusting because, just like the physical abuser who targets their blows to leave no visible injuries, the avoidant abuser uses silent treatment to hide the damage they are doing, to claim they are not abusers and aren’t “doing anything wrong”